Becoming the Right Person for and in MarriageSample

LET GOD’S VOICE DEFINE YOUR CHOICE

The greatest safeguard in marriage is divine leading. God Himself promises, “I will instruct thee and teach thee in the way which thou shalt go: I will guide thee with mine eye” (Psalm 32:8 KJV). Jesus also said of His sheep, “the sheep follow him: for they know his voice” (John 10:4 KJV). This means no child of God should enter marriage in confusion. God has bound Himself by covenant to lead His people, but many ignore His voice because they are intoxicated with their own desires. If you cannot discern His leading daily, you will likely miss Him in the weighty matter of choosing a life partner.

Courtship may reveal habits and preferences, but only the Spirit reveals the hidden man of the heart. A brother may act loving during engagement but hide lust or pride; a sister may appear godly yet carry rebellion. Only the voice of God can expose what eyes cannot see. That is why you must not depend on intelligence, beauty, or emotion when making this eternal decision. Marriage is covenant, not trial and error. God does not only know today—He knows ten years ahead, and He alone sees what that man or woman will become. To despise His voice and follow desire is to gamble with destiny.

Practically, train your spirit now. Don’t wait until a proposal comes before seeking divine direction. Recognise how God speaks to you through Scripture, the inward witness, and His peace. When you live this way, knowing who to marry won’t require guesswork—it will flow from a familiar walk with Him. If you are already married, the same voice that led you into salvation will also lead you to preserve your home. Let His voice be final, above culture, family pressure, or personal ambition. In destiny matters, silence your will and let God’s voice define your choice.

THOUGHT TO PONDER
Do I truly value God’s voice above my own desires in the matter of marriage? Am I daily training my spirit to recognise His leading without confusion?

PRAYER
Lord, open my ears to hear Your voice clearly and help me to follow Your choice above my desires in marriage.