Week 3: The Power of the Tongue & True Wisdom

Day 15: Taming the Tongue

As children, many of us remember the sting of words spoken on the playground. When someone said something unkind, the first response was often, “Take that back!”—as if retracting the words could undo the wound. But the truth is, words linger. Our minds may forgive, but our hearts rarely forget the pain that careless speech causes.

James reminds us that the tongue, though small, has extraordinary power. Just as a bit controls a horse or a rudder steers a massive ship, our words can steer the course of relationships, influence the atmosphere in our homes, and even shape our own destiny. But unlike ships and horses, the tongue can easily get out of control if not surrendered to God. A sharp remark, a gossiping whisper, or a boastful statement can ignite a fire that spreads quickly, leaving behind regret and brokenness.

On the other hand, when we allow the Holy Spirit to bridle our tongues, our words become instruments of healing, encouragement, and peace. A gentle answer can turn away wrath (Proverbs 15:1, NIV), and words spoken in love can restore what was once broken. Every conversation is an opportunity—will our words tear down, or will they build up?

Reflection: What recent conversations do I need to revisit in prayer, asking God to redeem what was spoken?

Application: Today, pause before you speak and ask: Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary? Choose words that plant seeds of life, not destruction.

Prayer: Heavenly Father, bridle my tongue. Let my words honor You and bring grace to those who hear them. When I am tempted to lash out or boast, remind me of the power I hold in my speech. Use my tongue to glorify You and to build others up in love. In Jesus’ name, Amen.