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Day 4 Devotional: Second Pillar of Relationship Equity ( Gifting)

When we talk about gifting in the context of a relationship, we're not necessarily referring to material gifts like flowers, jewelry, or other tangible items (although these can certainly be part of it). Instead, we're referring to using our natural gifts and talents to support and nurture our partners. Everyone is born with a unique gift or talent bestowed upon them by God. It is essential to recognize that just as men have the opportunity to advance in their careers and pursue their passions through their talents, women should be equally encouraged to embrace and utilize their God-given gifts outside of their familial roles. The virtuous woman exemplifies this balance beautifully, as she successfully managed her clothing business while also tending to the needs of her family.

When both partners in a relationship recognize and harness their natural gifts to support and nurture each other, it creates a harmonious balance and a deep sense of equity. For instance, if one partner excels at organization and planning, they may take charge of scheduling appointments and managing the household calendar. On the other hand, if the other partner possesses culinary skills, they might be responsible for preparing nourishing meals for the family. By valuing and leveraging each other's unique gifts, both partners feel genuinely appreciated and esteemed for their distinct contributions to the relationship. Such practice fosters a sense of equity and mutual respect, as both individuals are empowered to make meaningful contributions and help each other achieve their goals and aspirations.

Prayer:

Dear Lord, thank you for the unique gifts and talents you've bestowed upon us. Help us to recognize and nurture these gifts in each other, using them to uplift our relationship and grow together. May we always support and encourage one another's personal development and the fulfillment of our shared dreams. In your name we pray. Amen.