When it comes to growing your marriage and fighting for your marriage, you can't do it alone. You need other married couples mentoring both of you. Allowing a more mature, wiser couple to speak into your marriage during both the good and bad times is essential to having a long and healthy marriage.
Talk: Discuss these questions with your spouse: who are some couples that you admire for their strong marriage? What can we learn from them?
Pray: Ask God to bring the right couples into your life that will help grow your marriage.
Do: If you don't have a couple mentoring your marriage, decide with your spouse on a couple you can approach to ask to become your marriage mentors. If you already have marriage mentors, do something special for them today to thank them for the positive influence they have on your marriage.