God never promised us an easy life. As followers of Christ, we will face difficult times. The same goes for our marriages. We have a spiritual enemy whose purpose according to John 10:10 is to steal, kill, and destroy. Our spiritual enemy wants to take you out and he would love nothing more than to take your marriage out as well. Just knowing the fact that your marriage will be attacked will help you fight for your marriage.
Talk: Discuss with your spouse some of the ways you feel your marriage is under spiritual attack.
Pray: Ask God to help you recognize when your marriage is under attack and guide you on the best ways to fight for your marriage.
Do: Work on a simple project together or do one of your chores together. As you work together, enjoy a time of quality conversation.