Married couples that fight fair work towards resolution. Couples that do not fight fair press for victory. When we confront each other, we should always confront to bring about healing and never to win.
Talk: Recall one of the silliest things you've fought about in your marriage. Why do you think couples so often fight about silly things?
Pray: Ask God to reveal your faults when it comes to fighting with each other and ask Him to help you improve in those areas.
Do: If you've recently experienced something good in your marriage, then be intentional today about celebrating it. Feel free to be creative in how you celebrate. If you feel you have nothing recent to celebrate, then celebrate something good from your past and talk about how that moment affected your marriage.