Life can be a lot like school. You learn by listening and by asking questions. The people around you provide a tremendous resource. They have experiences and knowledge that you do not, and you have the opportunity to learn from them. If you have surrounded yourself with people who have no desire to grow or increase and are not interested in helping you in that pursuit, this is the time to evaluate your associations.
Find people who can teach you. Ask questions. Then listen closely to what they say. Seek to understand. Make a goal to learn something new every day that will benefit you in reaching your own goals and dreams. If you do this, you will amazed at how much your mind will increase and your thinking will expand in just a few weeks.