We are not called to judge people; we are called to love people. When you look at the life of Jesus, he did not condemn, rather he poured out unconditional love. We should do the same. When you are tempted to look at someone with judgment and criticism, remember these guidelines:
a. Things are rarely as they first appear.
b. You cannot draw accurate conclusions as long as there is missing information.
c. Never penalize someone for actions you do not fully understand.
In other words, don’t judge. Instead, choose grace.