Song of Songs 5:11

The apostle Paul wrote, “…I say to everyone among you not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think …” (Romans 12:3, ESV). This concept, which relates to relationships among believers, can be applied by married couples. We ought to think more highly of our mates than we do of ourselves—and convey it by our words and actions. Let’s consider some examples.

Discover God's Design for Romance, Marriage & Intimacy

Sex is God’s idea—sacred, good, and designed for covenant love. Sacred Intimacy: God’s Design for Sex is a 5-day in-depth Bible plan that explores the beauty and purpose of sex in marriage. Each day covers a key theme: the goodness of sex, its power to create life and oneness, intimacy through knowing, the comfort it brings, and the joy of shared pleasure. This plan helps couples rediscover sex as a holy gift—meant not just for pleasure, but for deep connection, healing, and delight in God’s design.

In this 7-Day video devotional with Phil Ryken, explore how even human relationships in love and marriage can help reveal the Christian’s intimate relationship with God himself.