Devotions for CouplesSample

Wives: Strike the right balance between acceptance and expressing your disappointment when following your husband's lead in an area where you disagree.

The apostle Paul was advocating voluntary submission, which occurs when people decide on their own to come under the protection and guidance of another for their benefit. This type of submission forms under Christ's direction and guidance, submitting his will to that of Jesus. And the wife likewise puts herself under the direction of Jesus and her husband. When this happens, both parties receive the benefits of following Christ together. Remember that Christ lived out submission by following His Father's will for His life, mission, and purpose. Christ came, ministered to those all around Him, died on the cross for you and for me, and rose from the tomb to assure eternal salvation for all who believe in Him.

When we follow that example in our marriages, not only will we glorify God, but our obedience will allow us to ultimately see the blessings God has for us.

Adventure Application: Submission can be a loaded term in our culture. Take a few minutes today to discuss what this word means to you. Do you each feel that the other hears your heart and respects your feelings? How might you begin to practice submission and meeting your spouse where he or she is?