Love is in your actions

When I think of the words patient and kind, the first person I think of is my wife, Laurel.

Now, here’s what’s interesting—Laurel would say she’s not naturally patient. Which means that every time she chooses to be patient and kind with me, she’s operating in a realm of love that only God can create.

“Love is patient, love is kind.” (1 Corinthians 13:4, NIV)

Love isn’t proven by what we feel, but by how we act. Patience and kindness are love’s first fruits. They require strength of spirit and a gentleness of heart. True patience doesn’t simply endure delays and inconveniences—it actually endures people with grace.

Kindness, in turn, is love’s generosity in motion. It lifts, it heals, and it refreshes.

Jesus modeled both of these perfectly. He patiently waited for Peter to grow, forgave His accusers, and extended kindness to every person He met. His love was never rushed, never harsh, and never self-serving.

Our world seems to reward speed and reaction, but love asks us to slow down, to listen, to understand, and to extend goodness even when it’s not deserved. Every moment that tests your patience is also a moment to be like Jesus and to respond in love.

My question to you is this: Who in your life needs to see some patience and kindness from you today?

Jesus, thank You for Your patience and kindness toward me. Help me to slow down long enough to see people the way You do. May I respond today not from irritation or inconvenience, but from a heart shaped by Your love and compassion. Let my love today be a beautiful gift to everyone I encounter. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Never forget, my friend—you are a miracle!

Your friend,
Grant