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The Renegade Male

"Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord." (Ephesians 6:4)

Author Derek Prince has described the “renegade male” as one of society’s biggest problems. The word renegade actually means “one who has shirked his primary responsibilities.” It is an accurate description of those husbands and fathers who pour every resource into work or pleasure, leaving the child‐rearing task entirely to their wives. Both boys and girls desperately need their fathers, who have a specific role to play in their lives.

Research in the field of child development has confirmed that the absence of positive masculine influence plays a key role in adolescent rebellion, sex‐role identity, and cohesion within the family. Conversely, those who accept their God‐given responsibilities at home have a fleeting—and golden—opportunity to shape the little lives entrusted to their care.

Questions for Today . . .

• Do I ever resemble a renegade male? How?
• In what ways am I a good father?
• How has my own father been a good or poor example of fulfilling his responsibilities at home?

Prayer . . .

Dear God, thank You for the responsibility and opportunity to impact my children for good. I want to be faithful. Help me to celebrate—not resent—my fatherly duties. Through my sometimes inadequate efforts, accomplish great things in the lives of my kids. Amen.

(Excerpted from Dr. James and Shirley Dobson’s book, Night Light for Parents. Used with permission.)

Bonus Content: Fathers Have a High Calling

In this video, Chris Bruin explains the incredible value of a dad. This message reminds us that fathers have a very high calling. In a culture that is constantly attacking men and the family unit, it’s a daunting task to lead a family well. Chris encourages fathers to look to God as their example for how to parent effectively in every season of life.