Love That Lasts: 30 Days in God’s WordSample

Listening with Your Heart

Early in our marriage, Stephana and I were talking, but weren’t really listening to each other. We’d hear words, but miss the heart behind them.

One turning point came when we learned to slow down and listen with the intent to understand, not just respond.

God’s Word teaches that listening with humility builds wisdom and connection.

Read His Word:
“My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” James 1:19 (NIV)

Pray His Word:
Lord, help me listen with patience and love. Quiet my urge to defend or fix. Let me hear my spouse’s heart and respond with understanding.

Live His Word:
Ask one open-ended question and reflect back what you heard before responding.

Tomorrow we will see how the words we speak shape the atmosphere of our home.