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Day 4: Protect the Vision, Not the Offense

Every marriage has moments of disappointment or misunderstanding. But harboring offense blocks your vision. When you dwell on what hurt you, you stop seeing what’s holy about your husband.

Ask God to protect the vision He gave you for your marriage. Refuse to let bitterness or frustration cause you to discard your covenant. Don’t protect your offense—protect the promise.

Remember: the enemy is after your agreement, because there is power when two walk together in unity.

Scripture for Meditation:
"Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it."
— Proverbs 4:23 (NIV)

Prayer:
God, I surrender every offense to You. Heal my heart and renew my vision. Help me guard the unity in my marriage and remember that my real enemy is not my husband, but the one who wants to divide us.

Action Step:

Say today’s scripture out loud, but insert your husband’s name into it. Let it build your faith.