Dating in a Way That Honors GodSample

Many people assume that the absence of loneliness means they are ready to date, but Scripture shows us another picture in the book of Genesis. You see, before Eve entered the scene, Adam had been given an assignment. He was given the responsibility to tend to and keep the garden (Gen 2:15). His mission came before marriage.

In other words, it's important to have a mission before marriage. When someone sees marriage as the ultimate goal, the danger is that it can quickly become an idol. However, when someone walks in purpose first, they remain anchored in something eternal. What is God calling you to do in this season? Are you pursuing your purpose, or are you waiting for someone else to give your life meaning?

I would encourage you not to put your calling on hold for a relationship that hasn’t even begun. Instead, pour yourself into the things of God. Develop your skills, grow in wisdom, and steward what He has already placed in your hands. When you are faithful with what He has given you, He will trust you with more (Luke 16:10).

Challenge: Identify one area where you have been putting life on hold for the sake of waiting. Take an intentional step toward your purpose today.

Let's Pray:
Lord, help me find and be content in my calling. Let my purpose be rooted in You, not in the idea of a relationship. Strengthen my heart to pursue what You have placed before me and help me not to delay my destiny, waiting for someone else to complete it. In Jesus’ name, Amen.