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Seeing Your Spouse as God’s Favor

Marriage is one of the most profound gifts from God—a tangible expression of His favor and kindness. Proverbs 18:22 reminds us that a spouse is not just a companion but evidence of God's approval and extraordinary goodness in our lives. When we view our spouse through this lens, it transforms our perspective and deepens our gratitude.

The word “favor” carries weight—it speaks of God’s deliberate blessing, a kindness that goes beyond what we deserve. Think about it: your spouse is an extravagant act of God’s love toward you. This realization should inspire you to cherish, honor, and value your marriage deeply. When you receive a gift from someone important, we take great care of it. How much more should we treasure the gift of a spouse, given by the ultimate gift giver, God Himself?

Reflection Question

- How does seeing your spouse as evidence of God’s favor change your attitude toward them?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for the gift of marriage and for showing Your favor through my spouse. Help me to see my spouse as a reflection of Your extravagant kindness. Teach me to honor and cherish this gift, to express gratitude daily, and to love in a way that reflects Your love for us. May my marriage bring glory to You and reflect the beauty of Your favor. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Take time today to tell your spouse how much they mean to you and thank God for the unique blessing of their love.