Fathers and Mothers: Devotions from Time of GraceSample

Introduction

Is marriage obsolete? In a recent Pew Research poll, about 40 percent of Americans assert or strongly assert that marriage in America is obsolete. You probably know the dismal stats about the divorce rate in our country. Here are nine reasons people give that might explain the steady collapsing of marriage in America:

--I assume that the relationship is probably going to break up at some point, and the breakup will hurt less if we were never married in the first place.
--Marriage is an exploitative, chauvinistic anachronism that heavily favors patriarchal control. Liberated women will more likely get what they want on their own.
--From the male point of view, women are giving it away these days. You don’t have to commit to her to get sex.
--Single parenthood is the new normal. African-Americans are already there with single-parent birthrates in some places above 70 percent. White folks’ single parenthood stats are following.
--My mom was a single parent, and I turned out fine.
--Marriage is something you can think about when your kids are raised and you are secure in your job.
--Cohabiting preserves your freedom of choice.
--Movies and TV shows relentlessly portray young men as either uneducated, clueless, reckless, socially inept, or violent. Why would any woman want to lock in her life to such a high-risk partner?
--I’m not going to get married until I find the perfect soul mate.

Are these the attitudes you want in your children’s minds? In your grandchildren's? In your own spouse’s? If you don’t, God has a better way. Let’s give the divine designer a chance to explain to us how to be happily married till death us do part and how to build a family life that will give him glory.