Controlling The Tongue

TALKING TO GOD

Thank God for His Word and for making you in His image. Take turns offering a prayer of praise for the many ways God has gifted you to communicate with each other.

DIVING IN

Find a picture (either in print or from a website) of an aerial view of a forest fire. Explain how hotspots, dry weather or a spark can set off such forest fires that can destroy homes and wildlife.

GOING DEEPER

Any fire that is out of control is extremely dangerous. James, Jesus’ brother, teaches the importance of watching your words. In James 3:5, we read “So also the tongue is a small member, yet it boasts of great things. How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire!” If left uncontrolled, your words have potential for great damage, just as a spark can ignite a terrible fire. You keep fire contained to protect your family from harm; in the same way, you can exercise self-control in your choice of words to avoid hurting others.

TALKING TO EACH OTHER

• What do you think James meant when he said that the tongue makes “great boasts”? Give some examples. 


• How have you experienced the hurt that can come from a few “out of control” words?


• How can you be careful with your words so you don’t  hurt others?