Ephesians 5:25, 28, 33

For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her

In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as they love their own bodies. For a man who loves his wife actually shows love for himself.

So again I say, each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.