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The Elephant in the Room: 10 Steps to a Successful Affair // Doug Combs

The Elephant in the Room: 10 Steps to a Successful Affair // Doug Combs

Sermon notes from the Weekend Service at Church on Fire Ministries in Harrison, Ohio.

Locations & Times

Church on Fire Harrison

10544 Harrison Ave, Harrison, OH 45030, USA

Sunday 8:30 AM

Sunday 10:00 AM

Sunday 11:30 AM

AFFAIRS DON'T JUST HAPPEN
10 Steps to Adultery:
1. Something makes you lean away from your marriage
2. There is an awareness of another person
3. Innocent meetings with that person opens the door for flirting
4. Meetings become intentional and planned by one of the people
5. While in group settings the two people linger together in conversation
6. Conversation shifts to feelings
7. The two people have isolated meetings under the disguise of legitimate purposes
8. The two people have isolated meetings for pleasure
9. Embraces become passionate
10. Adultery happens
Something makes you lean away from your marriage
Don't turn your heart away
BE SENSITIVE TO YOUR SPOUSES EMOTIONAL NEEDS AND MEET THEM
Men are from mars
Women are from venus
Men's basic needs: honor, sex, friendship, domestic support
Women's basic needs: security, open and honest communication, non-sexual touching and affection, leadership
Men's Mega Need: Respect

Women's Mega Need: Security
Women feel secure when they have a selfless, sacrificial husband.
Women feel insecure when they have a selfish, detached husband.
To my hurt your needs will be met before my needs are met
You begin to lean away from your marriage
COMMIT YOURSELF TO LOVING YOUR SPOUSE AND MEETING THEIR EMOTIONAL NEEDS
Your spouse needs you the most when you are going through difficult times
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