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HAPPILY EVER AFTER? | How to Fall in Love Again (With the Same Person)

HAPPILY EVER AFTER? | How to Fall in Love Again (With the Same Person)

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Faith Xperience Church

2260 Medbury St, Detroit, MI 48211, USA

Sunday 8:30 AM

Sunday 10:15 AM

Sunday 12:00 PM

HAPPILY EVER AFTER? How to Fall in Love Again (With the Same Person)

Main point: You fell in love by chance, but you stay in love by choice.
- God wants you & your spouse lovesick, ravished with "emotional" love for each other always - all the days of your life
- God wants the "emotional" love in your marriage to be an ever burning fire
- If we aren't experiencing this we're doing something wrong...
- You are partly responsible for your spouse being in love with you!
- Is your spouse IN love with you? Are you IN love with them?
10 Ways to Fall in Love Again:
1. Be 100% Faithful
- Be Faithful with your eyes, in thoughts, associations and actions - No Matter What!
2. Focus on their Strengths NOT their weaknesses
- She shifts from frustration to celebration here
- Focus is a choice - God literally tells us to fix our minds on what is good - that would included about our spouses
3. Be Strong (Lead) like a Man
4. Be Soft like a Woman
5. Connect Daily
- Although this is talking about a sexual yearning, women yearn for emotional connection with their husbands and husbands yearn for emotional connection with their wives (although it may look different for them)
- "There is something when you don't have time for your own love story" - so make time for it!
6. Date Weekly
- Plan a date night alone!
- Take some time to 'Sport!' 🙂
7. Prioritize Sex
- Schedule it & Follow the Schedule >> don't miss THIS APPOINTMENT
8. Eliminate Love Leaks
- Every time you have an attitude, rude, etc you set your marriage back
- Don't make it Hard for your Spouse to love you!
9. Use your Words WISELY
- Talk like love Talks > Sweet Talk Them!
- Remember, your Words are HEAVY!
10. Develop Good Marital HABITS
1. Add a Spiritual Component to your Relationship(Col. 3:4, 1 Cor. 11:3)
- Whether you pray together, have Bible Study together, discuss the
Sunday message or attend (or lead) a small group together keep Jesus
at the Center of your Life Together!

2. Give A Compliment, a Hug and a Kiss Every Day (Prov. 25:11, Eph.
5:29, 33)
- Daily complimenting & being affectionate with your spouse creates
the atmosphere for a Great Marriage full of Romance & Great Sex
- Make your Queen or King feel like Royalty everyday.

3. Spend (at least) 15 Minutes a Day Connecting(Dt. 24:5, Gen. 26:8)
- Make time for WE not just Me or The Kids
- Choose your Mate over your Phone. Phubbing hurts your Marriage incl.
your Sex Life

4. Go on a Date Every Week (Gen. 26:8)
- Date your Mate!
- Going on a weekly date not only meets her emotional needs (incl.
romance) but his need for recreational companionship

5. Have Sex Multiple Times a Week (1 Cor. 7:2-5, Prov. 5:18, 19)
- Sex is not the thermometer of the marriage, it's the thermostat! When
you and your spouse improve your sex life, you'll simultaneously improve
your marriage
- Create a Marriage Environment for Great Sex by Giving A Compliment,
a Hug and a Kiss Every Day, Spending 15 Minutes a Day Connecting,
Going on a Date Every Week & Doing Something Romantic (or Sexy) for
your Spouse weekly but whether you feel like it or not
HAVE SEX Regularly

6. Have a Weekly Money Meeting (Prov. 27:23, Lk. 14:28)
- Money problems are the number 1 cause of divorce in marriage
- It’s vitally important that you are on the same page financially - financial
goals yearly & monthly budget, weekly spending

7. Ask 'What Can I do Better' from Time to Time(1 Cor. 11:28, 1 Cor. 7:32-
34)
- If your job is to please your spouse it is appropriate to take a survey
from time to time on how you're doing!

8. Do a Yearly Marriage Check-Up(Heb. 2:1, Songs 7:11, 12)
- It’s a good idea at least once a year to read a marriage book, get
marriage counseling or attend a marriage conference together
- A yearly vacation/get away/honeymoon is a good idea too if possible
financially
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