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Faith Xperience Church

HAPPILY EVER AFTER? | You Before Me

HAPPILY EVER AFTER? | You Before Me

Join us at 8:30AM, 10:15AM or 12:00PM on Sundays at 2260 Medbury in Detroit or online at myfaithx.com. Watch & Connect Live: https://faithxperience.online.church YouTube: @faithxperiencechurch6979

Locations & Times

Faith Xperience Church

2260 Medbury St, Detroit, MI 48211, USA

Sunday 8:30 AM

Sunday 10:15 AM

Sunday 12:00 PM

You Before Me
- Marriage works when your mentality is "You Before Me."

- Strive to meet their emotional needs whether they meet yours or not.
A Woman's Top 5 Emotional Needs:

1. Affection - Women generally need to feel a high level of physical and verbal warmth, such as hugging, kissing, holding hands, and receiving compliments. This creates an environment where she feels cared for and secure.

2. Conversation - This involves spending quality time talking and sharing, particularly at a "feeling" level. It is not just about exchanging information, but emotional connection, with a focus on being listened to and understood.

3. Financial Support - A deep-seated need to feel that their partner is responsibly earning, saving, and sharing money to provide a secure future for the family.

4.Honesty & Openness - Women need to trust their partners completely, which is built by open, honest communication about thoughts, feelings, and actions. A partner who is transparent makes her feel secure.

5.Family Commitment - A woman needs to know that her partner is committed to being involved in the family, including sharing in household chores and devoting time to raising children.
A Man's Top 5 Emotional Needs:

1. Sexual Fulfillment - This is often the top, most driving need, encompassing intimacy, desire, and physical closeness.

2. Admiration and Respect - A man needs to feel that his partner looks up to him, appreciates his efforts, and respects his competence, which builds his self-esteem.

3. An Attractive Spouse - Men are visual creatures and often need their partner to make an effort to look good, both for themselves and to be admired by others.

4. Domestic Support - This involves creating a peaceful, organized home environment—a "safe haven" or sanctuary to rest and recharge at the end of the day.

5. Recreational Companionship - Men need their partner to be a companion in leisure activities and hobbies—someone to share fun, non-stressful time with.
Love Busters:

1. Angry Outbursts - Outward expressions of rage (screaming, violence, breaking things) that intimidate a spouse.

2. Selfish Demands - Attempts to force a spouse to do something, usually backed by threats or punishments if they refuse.

3. Disrespectful Judgments - Criticizing, condemning, or trying to change a spouse's opinions, tastes, or personality rather than accepting them.

4. Dishonesty - Lying, hiding information, or failing to be open about feelings, schedules, or finances.

5. Annoying Habits - Repeated, thoughtless behaviors (e.g., poor hygiene, interrupting) that cause a partner to feel unhappy.

6. Independent Behavior - Making decisions (spending, social plans, careers) without consulting the spouse, showing a lack of care for their feelings.
- Contention destroys attraction (more than we realize!)

- Be honest, if you were to grade yourself on how well you avoid Love Busters what grade would you get? Anything less than an 'A' is NOT acceptable!
Keep each other’s "Love Banks" full and you'll live Happily Ever After!
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