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Keys to a Great Marriage (Part 11 of Ephesians)

Keys to a Great Marriage (Part 11 of Ephesians)

Locations & Times

Fairbanks Campus

2830 Airport Way, Fairbanks, AK 99709, USA

Sunday 8:30 AM

Sunday 10:00 AM

Sunday 11:30 AM

Ephesians 5:21-33 NIV84
Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church---for we are members of his body. "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh." This is a profound mystery---but I am talking about Christ and the church. [33] However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
Three simple commands from this text:

1. Command to all of us
2. Command to wives
3. Command to husbands
MARRIAGE MYTHS: Two Goofy Ideas That Are Taught In Our Churches, But Not Found In The Bible

MYTH #1: God has a perfect mate picked out for us. It’s our job to find that person.
MYTH #2: Husband's lead. Wives need to adapt and follow.
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TWO KEYS TO A GREAT MARRIAGE

Key #1: Wives: respect your husband even when he doesn’t deseve it.

Ephesians 5:33
However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

Key #2: Husbands: love your wife. Your role is to serve her, not to be served by her.

Ephesians 5:33
However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.