If most of us were to be honest, our relationships really look like an incorrectly assembled lego set. For some of us we didn’t follow the directions. For some of us it was because we thought we knew better, for others of us it was because we didn’t know there were directions. Some of our houses look like this because we didn’t get all the pieces. Our childhood wasn’t what God intended. We didn’t have a safe place to learn and grow and develop. We didn’t have a good example to follow.