Christ Community Brookside
Vices & Virtues - June 18 | Brookside
Lust | Chastity - 9:00 & 10:45am
Locations & Times
Christ Community - Brookside Campus
400 W 67th St, Kansas City, MO 64113, USA
Saturday 3:00 AM
Scripture: 1 Thessalonians 4:3-8
Speaker: Bill Gorman, BillG@ChristCommunityKC.org
“I’ve finally come to see that every game has rules and sex has rules, and that unless you play by the rules, you’ll find that sex can create a depth of loneliness that nothing else can.”— George Leonard, The End of Sex: Erotic Love After the Sexual Revolution.
>> Lust makes sex selfish
— Rebecca DeYoung, Glittering Vices
>> Lust makes sex selfish
>> Chastity is better than it sounds
— Rebecca DeYoung, Glittering Vices
*Fight shame
*Set boundaries
*Cultivate friendship
*Be disappointed
— Ta-Nehisi Coates, “Violence and the Social Compact” in The Atlantic
Date: June 18, 2017
Text: 1 Thessalonians 4:1-8
Title: Lust and Chastity
SCRIPTURE: Read 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5.
Based on this passage, how would you describe the relationship between self-control, lust, and sexual immorality?
TAKEAWAY: How would you summarize this sermon to a friend who hadn’t heard it?
THINKING BACK: Bill made it a point to say that sex is a gift. However, many of us may have grown up hearing and believing not that sex is a gift but either “sex is gross” or “sex is God.” Which would you say you’ve heard more: “sex is gross” or “sex is God?” And in what ways do you struggle truly believing that sex is a gift - neither gross nor God?
DRAWING CONNECTIONS: If lust makes sex selfish, then how would you explain to someone how lust diminishes the gift of sex?
QUOTE: Rebecca DeYoung says that cultivating chastity is “to empower ourselves to love.” How exactly do you think chastity empowers us to love?
LIVING TOGETHER: Cultivating friendship was named as a key to growing in the virtue of chastity. How do you think our community group can be intentional about cultivating friendship both among ourselves and with others in the church?
PRAYER: Pray for each other to be able to take the necessary steps to grow in the virtue of chastity and to experience the freedom of a sexually pure life.
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