LEARNING THE PLAYBOOK
THE FIVE LANGUAGES OF LOVE

QUALITY TIME - Sarah Holmstrom

Quality time is all about giving someone your undivided attention

What’s Your Play?
Four Tips for a Quality Filled Conversation
1. Maintain eye contact
2. Don’t multitask
3. Listen for feelings
4. Refuse to interrupt

ACTS OF SERVICE - Eric Holmstrom

Actions truly speak louder than words

What's Your Play?
Ask yourself, "How can I help?" Then DO IT!

PHYSICAL TOUCH- Glenn Gunderson

Touch communicates acceptance

What's Your Play?
Use appropriate touch to communicate warmth and acceptance

GIVING AND RECEIVING GIFTS - Kimberly Gunderson

We don’t exchange gifts just to put extra points on the scoreboard.

What’s your play?
Study your teammate’s skill set.
Run their favorite plays.

WORDS OF AFFIRMATION - Sarah Holmstrom

Words are powerful and they always have been

What’s Your Play?
See and Share

“No matter how hard you try to express love in English, if he or she knows only Chinese, you will never understand how to love each other. We must be willing to learn the other’s primary love language if we are to be effective communicators of love.” Gary Chapman

What’s Your Play?
Jesus was multi-lingual in love and His followers should be too!