1 Timothy 3:8-13

In the same way, deacons must be men that people can respect. They must not say things they do not mean. They must not use their time drinking too much wine, and they must not be men who are always trying to get rich by cheating others. They must follow the faith that God made known to us and always do what they know is right. You should test those men first. If you find nothing wrong in them, then they can serve as deacons. In the same way, the women must have the respect of other people. They must not be women who repeat evil gossip about other people. They must have self-control and be women who can be trusted in everything. Deacons must have only one wife. They must be good leaders of their children and their own families. Those who serve well as deacons are making an honorable place for themselves. And they will feel very sure of their faith in Christ Jesus.