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Devotional 6: Love Is Not Rude

“…it is not rude…” — 1 Corinthians 13:5 (ESV)

Reflection

Rudeness is a form of disregard—it interrupts, disrespects, and devalues. At its core, it reflects a lack of care for another person's dignity. But love, true love, honors. It sees each person as created in the image of God and treats them accordingly, with gentleness, respect, and attentiveness.

Love is thoughtful in tone and action. It considers how words land and how presence affects others. Even when truth needs to be spoken, love chooses words that heal, not harm. Rudeness may get attention, but love builds trust.

Scripture References

• Colossians 4:6 (ESV) – “Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.”
• Ephesians 4:29 (ESV) – “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up…”
• Romans 12:10 (ESV) – “Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor.”

Practical Application

• Practice active listening. Give others your full attention without interrupting.
• Pause before speaking, especially when irritated. Ask: Is this necessary, helpful, and honoring?
• Be courteous in everyday situations—whether online, in traffic, or at home. Small acts of kindness reflect the heart of love.

Prayer

Lord, help me to honor others with my words and actions. Forgive me for the moments I’ve been dismissive, sharp, or inconsiderate. Teach me to slow down and see people the way You do—with compassion and dignity. May my love be evident in the way I treat others, even in the smallest interactions. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Call to Action

This week, I'd like you to observe how you interact in everyday conversations. Choose one person (perhaps someone you typically overlook or feel short with) and show intentional kindness and respect.