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Devotional 3: Love Does Not Envy

“…love does not envy…” — 1 Corinthians 13:4 (ESV)

Reflection

Envy is a silent thief. It creeps in when we compare our lives, gifts, or blessings to those of others and begins to distort our perspective. Where love sees others as fellow image-bearers, envy sees them as competitors. But love that is rooted in Christ celebrates others without feeling threatened, because it knows that God’s goodness is not scarce—it’s personal and perfectly timed.

Love refuses to view another person’s success as a loss. It rejoices in their victories because it is secure in its own identity. When love displaces envy, community flourishes, and bitterness loses its grip.

Scripture References

• James 3:16 (ESV) – “For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice.”
• Proverbs 14:30 (ESV) – “A tranquil heart gives life to the flesh, but envy makes the bones rot.”
• Galatians 5:26 (NKJV) – “Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another.”

Practical Application

• When you feel envy rising, pause and ask: What is this feeling pointing to in me that needs healing or affirmation?
• Practice gratitude. List three things about your life that you’re thankful for today.
• Choose to celebrate someone else’s breakthrough—even if you’re still waiting on your own.

Prayer

Lord, forgive me for the moments I’ve looked at someone else’s life and wished it were mine. Heal the places in my heart that feel forgotten or not enough. Help me to celebrate others with sincerity and trust Your plan for me. Remind me that I am deeply loved and never overlooked. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Call to Action

Identify one person you’ve felt envious of—whether for their success, relationship, or platform. Reach out to them this week with genuine encouragement or support. Let love silence comparison.