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FORGIVENESS BUILDS STRONGER BONDS

Is there someone you call a friend, but you are still holding onto hurt instead of offering forgiveness? Sometimes we mask pain with distance or silence, but unforgiveness lingers in the heart. Every friendship will face conflict, misunderstanding, or disappointment.

The difference between a friendship that thrives and one that crumbles often comes down to forgiveness. Unforgiveness is like poison; it damages your heart more than the person who hurt you. But forgiveness? It is healing, freeing, and holy.

God never asks us to do something He has not done. He forgives fully, without holding our sins against us. When we forgive, we reflect His heart and keep our friendships healthy and rooted in grace. Forgiveness does not mean ignoring boundaries or allowing abuse; it means releasing bitterness and allowing God to be the Judge.

True friendship includes grace. There is no perfect friend, only two people committed to growing in love. Forgiveness keeps your heart clean and relationships open to restoration.

PRACTICAL TIP

Think of someone you are holding a grudge against. Ask God for the courage to forgive that person right now, today. Write their name on paper, pray over it, and then tear it up as a symbol of releasing them into God's hands.

TESTIMONY

Nandi and her best friend had a serious fallout. They stopped talking for months. During a church youth service, she felt convicted to forgive, even without an apology. She messaged her friend a kind note and to her surprise, they began rebuilding their friendship. Forgiveness restored what pride would have buried.

PRAYER

Lord, help me to forgive those who have hurt me, just as You have forgiven me. Cleanse my heart of bitterness. Teach me to love with grace and humility. Let forgiveness be my response, even when it is difficult. I want my friendships to reflect Your mercy and truth.