Preparing for MarriageSample

As you’ve probably heard, communication is one of the most important things in any relationship, but especially in marriage. Often, when people are dating, communication seems to come easily, but when they get married, it comes as a miracle! Difficulty communicating effectively can lead to misunderstandings, frustration, and conflicts. I want to encourage you to invest in growing in this area as a couple and as individuals. Fight for good communication in your relationship. Read books, receive counseling, find a mentor–do whatever it takes to develop this area in your marriage. It’ll only be a blessing when this area is strengthened. Remember, marriage is like a beautiful garden from which you must pull weeds and plant seeds. Weeds represent bad habits that will be exposed during your time together, such as bad communication. Seeds represent your good attitude and behavior towards your spouse. Be intentional, and your marriage will flourish. Let's Pray: God, I pray that You will give me the ability to say what's on my heart with wisdom and love. Please help us grow as individuals and as a couple in this area of communication. Help us understand each other and grow closer through our words. Challenge: Practice active listening in your conversations, making sure to fully understand before responding.