Draw Near – 365 Guides to Greater Intimacy with GodSample

MORE DIFFERENCES When asked what they wanted of their husband, a large group of women replied: (1) that he be kind and understanding, (2) that he be romantically affectionate, (3) that he be a good father for the children, and (4) that he be a good provider. When men were asked what they wanted in their wives they replied: (1) a reasonably good housekeeper, (2) a reasonably good cook, (3) an interesting and exciting sex partner, and (4) a good mother for the children. In noting the differences between the sexes, we must understand there is not measurable difference between them in intelligence. Both sexes have sensitive egos, both appreciate respect, and both resent being used by the other. Moreover, the two sexes need sufficient freedom for self-fulfillment. The mature wife helps her husband express himself, while the mature husband looks beyond his own interests to bring out the best in his wife. God has created male and female to be different, yet equal; complementary, not competitive; and separate, yet fulfilling each other. Only when we understand this is God's design can healthy and happy homes be built. The sage noted: The wise woman builds her house, But the foolish pulls it down with her hands (Proverbs 14:1).