Finding Meaning in Mourning: Walking Through GriefSample

# Morning Is Coming “Through the Lord’s mercies we are not consumed, because His compassions fail not. They are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness.” Lamentations 3:22-23 (NKJV) I remember countless nights going to bed with tear-stained cheeks, mournful sobs, and a heart weighing a hundred pounds. Nights felt as though they’d never end, and I often wondered if death would be sweeter than waking to the same agony. Believing there would be no end to my pain, no end to the weight of my sorrow, no end to the tragedies of this world, I can’t even recall a specific night where one was worse than the other, because there were oh, so many. Needless to say, I am deeply empathetic. The reality of pain is something never far from my heart. For years, I despised this part of my character because I was angry and overwhelmed, always bitter with false understanding of God; which is probably why I’ve always identified with the Book of Lamentations. I fully understood the seeking, the bitterness, the grief. What I didn’t understand were the promises of God listed within its pages. When presented with the Word of God, we have two options: We can either read these words skeptically thinking we’ll believe it when we see it; or we can choose to believe God’s Word. We can lay down our preconceived notions of what we think about the world or what we assume God’s position in Heaven is, and we can choose to believe what’s true. When I recognize His Word is true, the bitterness in my heart turns to understanding of God’s grace. The sorrow that tries to steal away my nights is replaced with a joyful expectancy of what is to come. The promises in Lamentations seem never ending: God’s compassion does not fail. He is faithful. He is all that I need. He is good to me. He will deliver me. He will not reject me. His love is abundant. He defends me. He redeems me. Although the suffering and the realities of life and death are still very real, there is attainable hope. His promises are clear. His faithfulness is pure! When faced with the truth of God’s goodness, we can trade our deep sorrow for a joyful song. His comfort is clear: “My mercy NEVER ends. My faithfulness is great. Morning is coming.”