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From Heart to Healing to Holiness

Healing and wholeness are not rewards for good behavior; they are the fruit of being deeply loved by a good Father. Many believers fall into the trap of believing they must first live holy in order to earn the Father's approval. But that flips the gospel upside down.

Holiness is not a precondition for love—it is a byproduct of being loved.

Holiness flows from wholeness. And wholeness is rooted in identity—your position as a son or daughter, not a slave or performer. Wholeness is the finished work of God that lifts us out of pits and prisons and seats us securely in His presence. Yet many still live under the mask of performance—doing, striving, achieving—trying to prove they are enough to sit at the table.

This is not the way of the Kingdom.

You don’t perform for your place—you receive it. You don’t hustle for your healing—you inherit it. You don’t strive to become holy—you allow holiness to grow from the soil of intimacy with the Father.

When we believe we are loved, we begin to belong.
When we know we belong, we start to heal.
When we are healed, we live whole.
And from wholeness, holiness bears fruit.

God is not waiting for perfection; He is drawing us into His heart where healing begins. Holiness is the Spirit’s fruit, not our flesh’s achievement. The more we behold Him, the more we become like Him - 2 Cor 3:18

Performance-based identity often stems from early experiences of needing to earn love, attention, or acceptance. This creates subconscious scripts like, “I must be good to be loved.” But the healing journey dismantles this lie by anchoring identity in security, not striving.

It's time to flip the script.

Reflection Questions:

1. Where have you felt the pressure to earn love or prove your worth through performance?
2. What would it look like for you to live from love rather than for it?

Prayer:
Father, thank You that I don’t have to earn a seat at Your table. I am already invited, already known, already loved. Help me to live from the truth of my adoption and allow Your Spirit to bring healing, wholeness, and holiness in me. I choose today to rest in Your heart and receive Your transforming love. Amen.