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Namuhla sizobona uSamson eshayeka phansi. Kodwa kufanele uqonde: USamsoni akazange onakalise ukuphila kwakhe kanye nje. Ukuchithile isinyathelo esisodwa ngesikhathi. Eqinisweni, lapho siqala ukunhlanhlatha sisuka kuNkulunkulu, sonke sibonakala siqala ngezinyathelo ezintathu ezifanayo:
Isinyathelo 1: Ukuklolodela isitha sethu. USamsoni ungena endaweni yesitha (futhi) evakashele owesifazane “onobungani” (isifebe). Lapho ephuma emzini, uhamba nesango lomuzi (uphawu lwabo lokulondeka). Kungani? Ukubaklolodela nje.
Isinyathelo sesi-2: Ukulinganisa izono zethu. Abanye abantu bathethelela isono sabo ngokusekelwe ekutheni “ihlanzeke” kanjani impilo yabo yonke: Leli icala lami ELILODWA. Abanye abantu besilisa bakuthethelela njengokuthile okuyimfihlo: Kuyibhizinisi LAMI, hhayi elenu. Abanye babhala eyabo incwadi yemithetho: Ngingabheka imenyu, inqobo nje uma nginga-ode lutho. Futhi abanye amadoda asola abanye: Uma engenza LOKHO, ngeke kudingeke ukuthi ngenze LOKHU.
Isinyathelo 3: Ukucabanga ukuthi ukungalaleli kwethu ngeke kusilahlekisele. NjengoSamsoni, sihlala sicabanga, Ngizokwenza into efanayo nale engiyenzile ngesikhathi esidlule. Ngizozithintitha. Kodwa izono zethu zihlala zisehlula ekugcineni futhi zisinqobe. Isono sakho sizokuthola. Namuhla uzobona ukuthi kwakubukeka kanjani kuSamsoni.
USamsoni wayeyiqhawe elinamandla anele ukubulala inkulungwane yamadoda. Wayenamandla anele okudabula ibhubesi ngezandla zakhe. Wayenamandla ngokwanele ukuba adonse iminyango engamakhilogremu angu-700 ezigxotsheni zabo futhi ayisuse. Kodwa ekugcineni, wayengenawo amandla anele okuhola abantu okwakufanele ngabe wabahola.
Unganeliseki ngokuba namandla emsebenzini wakho. Unganeliseki ngokuba namandla ezintweni ozithandayo noma kwezemidlalo. Ungahlali uqinile ngokomzimba. Kunalokho, gxilisa amandla akho ekuholeni labo abaseduze kwakho ekulungeni. Amadoda angaba namandla ngazo zonke izindlela, kodwa iningi lishiya ubuholi kwabanye.
Amadoda abaningi abonakala ecabanga ukuthi angaqhubeka nokwenza izinto ezifanayo ngokuphindaphindiwe. Avumela imizwelo yabo nezifiso zabo ukuba zilawule izenzo zabo. USamsoni wayelokhu eya ezindaweni okwakungafanele aye kuzo, ejaha abesifazane abenqatshelwe, ephikisa izitha zakhe, futhi ethethelela ukuziphatha kwakhe okubi (ngenkanuko, intukuthelo, noma ukuziphindiselela). Wabhekana nemiphumela embalwa engokomzwelo, kodwa akukho okwake kwamlahlekisela into eyodwa eyabonakala enendaba nayo kakhulu, leyo nto ayethembele kuyo: amandla akhe. Kwaze kwaba njalo.
Ungakuvumeli lokho kube nguwe. Ungazimiseli ngokuba namandla ezintweni ezingahlali futhi ezibuthakathaka ezintweni ozenzayo. Thinta iqhawe ngaphakathi. Ungalwi izimpi ezingasho lutho. Lwela okubaluleke kakhulu. Lwela ukholo lwakho. Lwela umndeni wakho. Lwela impilo yakho.
Mayelana naloluHlelo
UMbhali owuMfundisi uCraig Groeschel usiza amadoda ukuba ambulekelwe ukuthi empeleni wona angobani —indoda eyiqhawe elinamandla. Lolu hlelo lwezinsuku ezingu-11 lubheka ukuphila kukaSamsoni—indoda enamandla kodwa ebuye ibe nobuthakathaka obusobala. Kulwele lokhu uNkulunkulu akwenze waba yikho. Ungalwi njengendoda ejwayelekile. Yilwa njengendoda kaNkulunkulu.
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