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Imingcele Namagama
Ezweni elibonakalayo, ucingo noma olunye uhlobo lwesakhiwo ngokuvamile luhlukanisa umngcele. Ezweni likamoya, uthango alubonakali. Noma kunjalo, ungakha uthango oluhle lokuvikela ngamazwi akho.
Igama eliyisisekelo lokubeka umngcele ngu-cha. Kwenza abanye bazi ukuthi ukhona ngaphandle kwabo nokuthi nguwe olawula wena. Ukucacisa ngocha wakho—no-yebo wakho—kuyisihloko esitholakala kulo lonke iBhayibheli ( NgokukaMathathewu 5:37; EJakobe 5:12)
Cha igama eliphikisanayo. IBhayibheli lithi kufanele sibhekane nabantu esibathandayo, sithi, “Cha, lokho kuziphatha akulungile. Ngeke ngibambe iqhaza kulokho.” Igama elithi cha libalulekile futhi ekubekeni imingcele ekuhlukumezeni. Iziqephu eziningi zomBhalo zisikhuthaza ukuthi senqabe ekuphathweni okunesono kwabanye (NgokukaMathewu 18:15–20).
IBhayibheli liphinde lisixwayise ngokupha abanye “ngokungafuni noma ngaphansi kokucindezelwa” ( 2 KwabaseKorinte 9:7). Abantu abanemingcele engemihle bayazabalaza ngokuthi cha ekulawuleni, ekucindezelweni, ekufuneni, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngezidingo zangempela zabanye. Banomuzwa wokuthi uma benqabela othile, bazofaka ubuhlobo babo nalowo muntu engozini, ngakho bamane balalele kodwa bacasuke ngaphakathi. Kwesinye isikhathi umuntu ukuphoqa ukuthi wenze okuthile; kwesinye isikhathi ingcindezi iqhamuka emuzweni wakho walokho okumele ukwenze. Uma ungakwazi ukwenqaba lokhu kucindezela kwangaphandle noma kwangaphakathi, ulahlekelwe ukulawula impahla yakho futhi awusijabuleli isithelo “sokuzithiba.”
Amagama akho abuye achaze impahla yakho kwabanye njengoba ukhuluma ngemizwa yakho, izinhloso zakho, noma ongakuthandi. Kunzima ukuthi abantu bazi ukuthi umi kuphi uma ungasebenzisi amagama ukuchaza indawo yakho. uNkulunkulu uyakwenza lokhu lapho ethi, “Ngiyakuthanda lokhu futhi ngiyakuzonda lokho.” Noma “Ngizokwenza lokhu, futhi ngeke ngikwenze lokhu.” Amazwi akho azisa abantu lapho umi khona futhi ngaleyo ndlela abanikeze umuzwa “wonqenqema” olusiza ukukukhomba. "Angithandi uma ungithethisa!" inikeza abantu umlayezo ocacile mayelana nendlela owenza ngayo ubudlelwano futhi ubazisa “imithetho” yegceke lakho.
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