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Sibophezelekile "Ku" kanye "Ne"
Sibophezelekile ku abanye kanye nokwethu thina. “Thwalisanani imithwalo yenu,” kusho eyabaseGalathiya 6:2, “ngale ndlela niyogcwalisa umthetho kaKristu.” Leli vesi likhombisa isibopho sethu komunye nomunye.
Izikhathi eziningi abanye “banemithwalo” emikhulu kakhulu ukuthi bangayithwala. Abanawo amandla, izinsiza, noma ulwazi olwanele lokuthwala umthwalo, futhi badinga usizo. Ukuzincisha thina ngokwethu ukwenzela abanye lokho abangenakuzenzela ukukhombisa uthando lomhlatshelo lukaKristu. Yilokhu uKristu asenzela kona. Wenza lokho thina esasingenakuzenzela khona; wasisindisa. Lokhu kuwukuba nesibopho “kubo.”
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, eyabaseGalathiya 6:5 ithi “yilowo nalowo makathwale owakhe umthwalo.” Wonke umuntu unemithwalo yemfanelo engathwalwa nguye kuphela. Lezi zinto “ziwumthwalo” wethu othize okudingeka siwuthwale nsuku zonke futhi siwulungise. Akekho ongasenzela izinto ezithile . Kufanele sithathe ubunikazi bezingxenye ezithile zempilo “eziwumthwalo” wethu.
Amagama esiGreki asho inkathazo kanye umthwalo asinika ukuqonda ngencazelo yale mibhalo. Igama lesiGreki elithi umthwalo lisho “imithwalo eyeqile,” noma imithwalo esindayo kangangokuthi isisinda. Le mithwalo ifana namatshe. Ingasichoboza. Akufanele silindele ukuthwala itshe sodwa! Bekuzosiphula iqolo. Sidinga usizo ngamatshe—lezo zikhathi zobunzima nezinhlekelele ezimpilweni zethu.
Ngokuphambene, igama lesiGreki elisho umthwalo lisho “impahla,” noma “umthwalo wokukhandleka kwansuku zonke.” Leli gama lichaza izinto zansuku zonke okufanele sonke sizenze. Le mithwalo ifana namasaka. Kungenzeka ukuthwala ama-Knapsacks. Kulindeleke ukuthi sithwale okwethu. Kulindeleke ukuba sibhekane nemizwa yethu, izimo zengqondo, nokuziphatha, kanye nemithwalo yemfanelo uNkulunkulu ayinike ngamunye wethu, nakuba kudinga umzamo.
Kuphakama izinkinga lapho abantu benza sengathi “amadwala” abo ayimithwalo yansuku zonke futhi benqaba usizo, noma sengathi “imithwalo yabo yansuku zonke” ingamatshe okungafanele bawathwale. Imiphumela yalezi zimo ezimbili kungaba ubuhlungu obungapheli noma ukungabi nasibophezelo.
Ukuze singahlali sisezinhlungwini noma singabi namthwalo wemfanelo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukunquma ukuthi “mina” uyini, ukuphi umkhawulo wesibopho sami nokuthi owomunye umuntu uqala kuphi.
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Ingabe impilo yakho izwakala sengathi ayisalawuleki? Mhlawumbe unemizwa engaqondakali yecala, yokwesaba, yokucasuka, ukungabi namandla, intukuthelo, noma ubuhlungu obujulile bomzwelo obuhlobene nabantu obaziyo. Encwadini yabo ethi BOUNDARIES, uDkt. U-Henry Cloud no-John Townsend bakusiza ukuthi ufunde ukuthi uthi yebo nini futhi wazi ukuthi cha ukuze ulawule impilo yakho. Lolu hlelo luzokusiza ukuthi uqalise ngemingcele.
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