Imibuzo Engu-7 Ehlupha Imiqondo Yabantu abaningiIsampula

Kubantu besilisa, kukhona ukuhlonishwa okuthile ekuthwaleni izibazi zezimpi ezedlule—ukuxhuga okwavela eminyakeni eminingi yokudlala ibhola, noma ikhala eligwegwile kusukela ekumelaneni nenkunzi yasenkundleni yokudlala. Le miphumela eqhubekayo isikhumbuza inkazimulo yethu yangaphambili.

Kodwa sonke futhi sinezibazi zezikhathi ezidlule okungenzeka azibanga nenkazimulo kangako. Mhlawumbe ubaba owayengekho, isivumelwano sebhizinisi esihambe kabi kakhulu, noma ubunganI obukufake enkingeni.

Lezi zikhathi ezichazayo ubudlelwane kungashiya isibazi ongase ungasiboni nakancane. Kodwa njengalokho kuxhuga, kungase kukuvimbezele ekusaseni eligcwele nelikhululekile.

Ngakho umbuzo wethu wanamuhla uthi: Ithini indaba yami?

Lo mbuzo uyisikhumbuzo sokuthi incazelo yezinye zezimo zakho zamanje ingase ihlale esikhathini esidlule.

Ukukhulela emndenini ophukile kungenzeka kukufundise ukuthi awukwazi ukuthembela kobathandayo ukuthi uhlale useduze. Futhi umthwalo osuka kulokhu kungenzeka usungene emshadweni wakho njengoba ukhathazeka ngokuthi umkakho uzohamba lapho nina nobabili ningavumelani.

Ukufunda kwanamuhla encwadini kaJohane kuthi ukwazi iqiniso—kulokhu, ukuhlanganisa amachashazi phakathi kwesikhathi sakho esidlule nesamanje—kuyokukhulula. Kukunika ithuba lokuxolela. Kukukhulula ebumunyu. Ivumela okwedlule ukuthi kukukhumbuze kodwa kungakuchazi.

Ukubheka emuva esikhathini esidlule kungase kuchaze imanje futhi kuzokhulula ikusasa lakho nakanjani.

ZAMA LOKHU NAMUHLA

Khetha ubudlelwane obubodwa noma isikhashana endabeni yakho. Ingabe lesi simo esidlule sichaza noma yimiphi imizabalazo noma ukuziphatha kwakho kwamanje?