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Keeping the Joy Alive in Marriage: A Devotional for Husbands

Marriage is meant to be joyful, filled with laughter, connection, and adventure. Yet, keeping the fun alive requires intentional effort and creativity. Let’s explore how we can prioritize joy in our marriages and create lasting memories with our wives.

1. Prioritize Time Together (Deuteronomy 24:5)

In Deuteronomy, newlywed husbands were given a year off from military duties to focus on their wives and strengthen their bond. While we may not have a year, we can prioritize regular dates and quality time to invest in our marriages. Even small, inexpensive dates or shared adventures can keep the spark alive and deepen our connection.

Reflect: Are we prioritizing quality time with our wives? What steps can we take to create consistent opportunities for fun and connection?

2. Be Creative in Encouragement (Hebrews 10:24)

Hebrews reminds us to spur one another on to love and good deeds. In marriage, this means finding creative ways to affirm and encourage our wives. Whether it’s leaving a thoughtful note, planning a surprise date, or simply expressing appreciation, these actions communicate love and attention.

Reflect: How can we affirm our wives in ways that speak to their hearts and make them feel cherished?

3. Discover Shared Activities

Not every activity will resonate with both partners, but exploring hobbies and interests together can lead to shared joy. Whether it’s playing a sport, cooking a meal, or embarking on a new adventure, finding “your thing” as a couple is worth the effort.

Reflect: What shared activities can we explore that bring joy and laughter to our marriage? How can we make these moments a regular part of our lives?

4. Remove Distractions

Social media, excessive hobbies, and other distractions can pull us away from focusing on our marriages. Eliminating these distractions not only prevents harmful comparisons but also frees up time for meaningful conversations and connection with our wives.

Reflect: Are there distractions we need to cut back on to be more present in our marriages? How can we redirect that time toward our relationship?

5. Focus on Being a Giver

Joy in marriage grows when we focus on giving rather than taking. Whether it’s planning a date that caters to her preferences, serving her love language, or simply being thoughtful in everyday moments, this mindset builds intimacy and trust.

Reflect: How can we shift our mindset to be more of a giver in our marriage? Are there specific ways we can serve and bless our wives this week?

Living with Joy and Intentionality

Keeping the joy alive in marriage requires effort, but it’s worth every moment. Let’s commit to these principles:

• Prioritize Time: Regularly schedule dates and moments of connection.
• Be Creative: Encourage and affirm our wives in ways that resonate with them.
• Discover Activities: Find shared hobbies or adventures to enjoy together.
• Remove Distractions: Eliminate what pulls us away from being fully present.
• Be a Giver: Focus on serving our wives with love and intention.

When we seek joy in our marriages with God’s help, we not only strengthen our relationships but also reflect His love through our actions. Let’s ask Him for the wisdom and creativity to keep our marriages fun, vibrant, and filled with laughter.