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El Shaddai: God Almighty
The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.
Exodus 14:14 NIV
“We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand.” Professor Randy Pausch spoke those words in “The Last Lecture,” a talk he gave at Carnegie Mellon University. He had just learned his pancreatic cancer, diagnosed a year prior, was terminal. Pausch didn’t ask for pity or talk about his challenges. Instead, he encouraged those in the audience to work toward their dreams, overcome their obstacles, and seize every moment. Although he’d been dealt a difficult hand, he chose to focus only on a positive perspective.
Blended family life includes its own set of difficulties. Maybe the hand you’ve been dealt includes a defiant stepchild. Or a manipulative ex-spouse. Or a loneliness you can’t shake because no one understands the stepparent journey you walk.
God’s promises give us hope. And El Shaddai, God Almighty, is capable of fulfilling His promises. The story of Abraham confirms His all-sufficiency. Genesis 17:1–2 says, “I am God Almighty; walk before me faithfully and be blameless. Then I will make my covenant between me and you and will greatly increase your numbers.” Although Abraham and Sarah were well past childbearing age, God brought them a son, Isaac. God later fulfilled His promise to make Abraham’s descendants “as numerous as the stars in the sky and as the sand on the seashore” (Genesis 22:17).
If we dig deeper into his life, we find a stepfamily problem around Abraham’s sons, Isaac and Ishmael (Genesis 21). Abraham’s first son, Ishmael, was born to his slave Hagar because Sarah had become impatient waiting on God to give her a child and offered Hagar to her husband. When Ishmael’s half-brother, Isaac, was born, Sarah mistreated Hagar. We find great strife between the two women, and Sarah tells Abraham to send Hagar and Ishmael away.
Abraham is naturally distressed. God tells him to listen to Sarah, and He will take care of his son. The next morning, Abraham gives Hagar food and water and sends her and Ishmael off to wander in the desert. What a painful departure that must have been! But we see God’s provision: “God was with the boy as he grew up” (Genesis 21:20). Later, Scripture tells us Ishmael lived 137 years and was the father of twelve tribal leaders, as God had promised.
Modern stepfamily issues include strife and separation as well, but we can be assured God will provide for our needs. We can trust the all-sufficiency of El Shaddai, God Almighty.
Thank You, Father, for Your promises. When my faith wavers, remind me that You are God Almighty.
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
When we trust El Shaddai to fulfill His promises, we find hope for every need.
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There can be special challenges for parents of blended families. Gayla Grace combines the wisdom of her own experience as a mother and stepmother with the truths of the Bible to offer hope and encouragement for couples and stepfamilies.
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