DAY 6: Let there be Light

“The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.”— John 1:5 (NIV)

One of the most eye-opening truths about spiritual warfare in marriage is how subtly the enemy works. His tactics are rarely obvious. He plants seeds of division, strife, and contention in such a way that spouses begin to see each other as the enemy, instead of recognizing the real source of conflict.

But before the enemy can successfully divide a marriage, he attacks both partners' language, perception, and mindset.

Consider the story of the Tower of Babel (Genesis 11). The people were united in language and purpose. Even God acknowledged that their unity made them unstoppable. That shows us something powerful: unity is a powerful force the enemy fears. Similarly, the enemy has no space to operate whenever there is unity in a marriage. That's why he constantly looks for cracks in the wall. Scripture says when the hedge is broken, the serpent will bite.

The enemy’s works of darkness can manifest in marriage in several ways, including:

•Constant bickering and unresolved arguments

•Criticism and belittling of one another

•Hardened hearts filled with anger and offense

•Unwillingness to forgive, cooperate, or be accountable

•Unhealthy bloodline patterns that work against the marriage

One of the most significant revelations the Lord has shown me is how the enemy studies the history of a family’s generational patterns. He looks into the archives of a bloodline to identify the habit or weakness that has consistently destroyed marriages in that lineage. Once he finds a recurring weakness, he works tirelessly to keep that cycle active in the lives of descendants.

To break free from these attacks, we must completely yield to the Lord and allow ourselves to be transformed by His Word. Every time there is pride, selfish ambition, or lust, there will be a tendency to prioritize personal desires over marriage. This is where the enemy thrives.

The enemy loves when:

•There is selfish ambition instead of mutual sacrifice

•One or both partners seek control or validation

•There is a desire to be worshipped rather than to serve

This is why marital conflicts can escalate so quickly. The enemy capitalizes on these weaknesses to fuel division. The Bible says, “Cast out the scoffer, and contention will cease” (Proverbs 22:10 NKJV). In other words, when you remove the root of strife, peace is restored.

Whenever you sense darkness operating in your home, it is a crucial moment to declare the light of the Lord.

Light is what overcomes darkness. As John 1:5 NKJV states, “The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.”

How to Speak Light Into Your Home

1. Speak God’s Word daily over your marriage and household.

2. Pray intentionally over your home, covering it in the presence of God.

3. Worship aloud in your home, allowing God’s presence to fill the atmosphere.

4. Pause and reflect—separate yourself for prayer and realignment when arguments arise.

5. Exalt God’s presence—invite Him into your marriage and daily interactions.

My prayer is that every time you sense the works of darkness in your marriage, you will not respond with anger, pride, or selfish desires but instead align your heart with God. May you learn to speak His truth, declare His counsel, and allow His light to shine in your home.

No matter the situation, always remember this: Speak and declare light.

Scriptures for Reflection:

•Ecclesiastes 10:8

•Proverbs 22:10

•Genesis 1:3

•John 1:5