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Unsung Heroes

"Yours, O Lord, is the kingdom. . . Wealth and honor come from you." (1 Chronicles 29:11-12)

As a society, we are inclined to honor heroes and high achievers. We award a Purple Heart to soldiers wounded in action. We admire All‐Americans who excel in college football, basketball, or baseball. We celebrate winners of the Nobel Peace Prize. We applaud students who graduate magna cum laude. We fawn over movie stars at the Academy Awards. But who takes time to honor the wives and husbands who diligently fulfill their responsibilities each day? Who cares about these unsung heroes who give of themselves, sacrificing for their children or caring for each other? Most often, the only cheering section for such couples is themselves—but when one partner doesn’t seem to notice, it’s pretty tough for the other to feel valued or motivated.

Scripture is clear regarding this matter. The apostle Paul says, “Honor one another above yourselves” (Romans 12:10). There’s no better place to apply this verse than in your home—with the husband or wife sitting next to you.

Questions for Today . . .

• What do you think honoring each other means in the context of marriage?
• Do you feel “honored” by your spouse?
• Do you know, without a doubt, that they hold you in highest esteem?

Prayer . . .

Dear Lord, in my rush to admire and celebrate the achievements of others, help me to remember the loving life partner right beside me who most deserves my appreciation and respect. Open my eyes to simple but meaningful ways I can show honor. Amen.

(Excerpted from Dr. James and Shirley Dobson’s book, Night Light for Couples. Used with permission.)

Bonus Content: A Simple Way to Show Honor and Respect to Our Mate

There are going to be days when we fail to show honor to our spouse. In this video, Matt and Ariel Holcomb explain that this is why we should regularly speak highly of our partner in front of others. It shows love and respect and makes him or her feel appreciated.