10-Day Marriage Seriesಮಾದರಿ

Day 5: What a Man Wants in His Home

"It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him." (Genesis 2:18)

Wife, do you understand the needs of your husband? Let's face it, a man's career is usually extremely important to his self-esteem. He is made that way. Many women complain about their husbands' "workaholism," which may be valid, and yet husbands deserve thanks for the effort they invest. Compared to the man who sits around the house doing little or nothing, the hard worker is an honorable man. God has assigned two key tasks to men: to provide for and to protect their families. If your husband meets those two requirements, you need to let him know that you appreciate how hard he works.

Several years ago, a survey was taken to determine what men wanted in their homes. The result was surprising: it was tranquility. Is your home a peaceful haven for your husband—a place where he can "recharge his batteries" and enjoy the company of his family?

Whatever his specific needs and wants, your husband—and your marriage—will benefit immeasurably when you make him a priority in your life. Scripture says that a woman was designed to be a "helper" for her husband (who, in turn, is commanded to love his wife as Christ loved the church). And, after all, there's no one better for the job than you.

Questions for Today . . .

Wives, ask your husbands:

• Do you feel that I appreciate how hard you work?
• What do you most like about the things I do for you?
• How can I show my love for you this week?

Prayer (for wives) . . .

Heavenly Father, thank You for my husband. I want to understand and serve him in a way that refreshes and encourages him. Show me how to bless my husband with gifts such as appreciation, support, and tranquility in our home. Amen.

(Excerpted from Dr. James and Shirley Dobson’s book, Night Light for Couples. Used with permission.)

Related Resource . . .

In marriage, it's not always the words we say but simple gestures that show how much we love and cherish our mates. In this video, Brenen and Morgan Beeler share some ways to say "I love you" without speaking.