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Christian Self-Esteem – Day 6

Everyone longs to feel valuable and secure, but true and lasting self-esteem can’t be built by willpower or motivational slogans. The Bible shows us that our worth comes from knowing Jesus and understanding who we are in Him.

Question and Answer

How can a Christian develop lasting and solid self-esteem?
True Christian self-esteem does not depend on achievements or accomplishments, but on what Christ has done for us. It grows as we deepen our relationship with Jesus and recognize our value in Him, even during trials and difficulties.

Reflection

Modern methods of “boosting self-esteem” can be dangerous for believers because:

• They can lead to judgmental attitudes and a tendency to compare oneself to others.
• They can create despair when facing failures or challenges.

The Bible reminds us that our worth is not in our performance but in Christ. A healthy path to Christ-centered self-esteem looks like this:

• Shift focus from self to Jesus as the center of life.
• Know Jesus personally, not just as a distant concept. Spend daily time with Him—pray, read the Bible, meditate, worship, or simply listen.
• Allow Jesus to give value and confidence, rather than relying on our own effort or human recognition.

Supporting Scriptures:

• “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” (2 Corinthians 5:17)
• “Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that He may lift you up in due time” (1 Peter 5:6)

Reflection questions:

• Is my self-esteem rooted in Jesus or my own accomplishments?
• How can I intentionally spend time with Jesus today?
• Am I letting Christ shape my value, even in difficult times?

Response/Application

• Make space daily to encounter Jesus, through prayer, Scripture, or worship, so your confidence flows from Him.
• Examine your motivations: are you measuring yourself by performance or by what Christ has done?
• Trust Jesus to give value and security, especially in challenging seasons.

Suggested Action

• Pray: “Lord, help me build my self-esteem in You, not in my efforts.”
• Set aside time today to connect with Jesus through reading, meditation, or prayer.
• Reflect and share with someone how Christ uniquely strengthens your self-esteem.