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The Lesson of Loyalty

Over four decades of ministry have taught me many lessons. At my ordination, my pastor wisely told me, “The Spirit of God will teach you much, you will learn much from Scripture and books, but most of your learning will come from people.” How true that has proven to be.

One of the greatest lessons I’ve learned through people — and through my own self-reflection, is the lesson of loyalty.

In Jesus’ parables of the Kingdom, two qualities stand out in His commendation of faithful servants: “Well done, good and faithful servant” (Matthew 25:21 NIV) - Here, “well done” points to productivity — fruitfulness with what God entrusts to us. But “faithful” points to loyalty — a steadfast commitment to God and His call.

What is loyalty? It is a consistent commitment to a person, group, vision, or calling. Scripture tells us, “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity” (Proverbs 17:17 NIV). Loyalty is tested not in easy times but in challenging ones.

Unlike respect, which can be earned through performance, loyalty cannot be bought, demanded, or forced. “Many will say they are loyal friends, but who can find one who is truly reliable?” (Proverbs 20:6 NLT). Bought loyalty can be sold to the highest bidder. Demanded loyalty produces only temporary compliance. And compliance is not the same as commitment.

Some people appear loyal only until the next opportunity arises — what Scripture calls being “double-minded” (James 1:8). Others are loyal only so long as it serves their own ambition, like Judas, who followed Jesus but betrayed Him when his agenda clashed with the Kingdom (Matthew 26:14-16).

But true loyalty is different. True loyalty is a gift.

Why a gift? Because loyalty flows from relationship, not transaction. Paul commended Timothy not for his talents but because “he has proved himself, because as a son with his father he has served with me in the work of the gospel.” (Philippians 2:22 NIV). Loyalty is love expressed through steadfast presence and service.

So how do we inspire such loyalty?

Three ways:

1. Recognize people’s value (Romans 12:10)
2. Increase their value by helping them grow (2 Timothy 2:2)
3. Live with consistency — be a trustworthy example (1 Corinthians 4:2)

At its core, loyalty means laying down self-interest for the sake of covenant relationship (John 15:13). Jesus calls us to be both productive and faithful. May we honor Him with our work and with unwavering loyalty to Him.

Prayer: Lord, help me to be loyal to You above all else, and to inspire true loyalty in those I lead, through value, growth, and consistency. Amen.

Rev. A. R. Bernard
Founder, Christian Cultural Center
Brooklyn, NY
https://arbernard.com/