Discovering your spouse’s infidelity upends everything. So many people are left unsure how to move forward, let alone how to take care of themselves in the aftermath. This 10-day reading plan will help you reaffirm your identity in Christ and start the journey toward healing.

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Self Care After Discovering Infidelity in Your Marriage

John Owen summarized Romans 8:13 when he said, “Be killing sin or it will be killing you”. This has never been more true than with the sin of lust. 

While God can and sometimes does bring instant deliverance from a porn or sex addiction, for most, lasting freedom requires growth in key areas of life that address the roots of their addiction.

Over the next seven days, you’ll explore each root of a porn and sex addiction, uncover the lies it plants, replace them with the Truth of Scripture, and learn practical steps to uproot these strongholds for good.

Killing Lust: Overcoming the 6 Roots of a Porn or Sex Addiction

Saving sex for marriage isn't cool; it's holy. So why do so many Christians struggle with keeping it on lockdown until they say, "I Do"? Could it be we've conformed to cultural norms & slapped a Jesus bumper sticker on our lifestyle? Sex was God's idea before it ever became perverted by the world. It's time we change the narrative & redeem what was lost in translation during the purity movement. 

Keeping It on Lockdown

Do you feel like you're in a never-ending battle with temptation? Or maybe you've grown weary of dating in an over-sexualized culture? There’s a perverse, lustful, and seductive spirit that seeks to devour you. It’s the dragon in the red dress bombarding us daily through social media, porn, advertisements, and cultural 'norms.' 

Slay the Sexy Dragon

Do you feel trapped by lust? Does it seem like there’s no way out? This 3-day devotional plan gives you practical steps to gain victory over lustful thoughts, porn, and unwanted sexual behaviors. There’s hope. With biblical truth and brain science, you can overcome lust and experience true freedom.

Overcoming Lust

After experiencing the shock of your spouse’s infidelity, you may start falling into distorted thinking. But blaming yourself, catastrophizing, and other distorted thoughts are obstacles to healing. This 5-day reading plan will help you recognize and challenge these unhelpful thought patterns.

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Challenging Your Distorted Thoughts After Infidelity

Now is the time to prepare yourself to fight like a man against sexual immorality. Emeal “E.Z.” Zwayne provides an arsenal of simple yet revolutionary strategies to equip you to conquer lust through the Power of Biblical Truth and Gospel-Centered Grace. No matter your past, you can embrace the freedom available in Christ and the fullness of a life that honors God with every thought, word, and deed.

Fight Like a Man: A 7-Day Plan for Personal Purity

Porn addiction can feel like a never-ending cycle of resolve, temptation, failure, and shame. What if there was a way to break that cycle? We believe there is. This devotional invites you take your first steps toward porn-free living by offering a vetted, researched, and demonstrated pathway to lasting change. 


The Path to Freedom: 5 Steps to Porn-Free Living

The reason behind a man’s behavior can seem overwhelming, but remember, there is nothing too difficult for God. By His grace, there is no problem that cannot be overcome. With proper support, treatment, and motivation, your husband can lead a healthy, highly functioning life, and you can have a fulfilling marriage. We’ll discuss the steps to help you and your husband get there.

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