When Love Feels Dry: Rekindling Intimacy God’s Way 7-Day Devotional for Christian Wivesنموونە

Introduction: When Love Feels Dry

Every marriage experiences seasons—times of deep joy and closeness, and times when love feels distant, routine, or even dry. As wives, it can be discouraging to realize that the spark we once enjoyed with our husbands has dimmed. But a dry season does not mean a dead marriage. God designed marriage to be a covenant that can be continually renewed, strengthened, and refreshed through His grace.

This 7-day devotional is an invitation to pause, reflect, and intentionally rekindle intimacy God’s way. Together, we’ll explore how to rebuild emotional connection, restore spiritual unity, and reignite physical affection. You’ll find encouragement from Scripture, practical steps to nurture your relationship, and prayers to invite God into your marriage journey.

No matter what season you’re in, God is able to breathe life back into your love. As you walk through these days, may you be reminded that your pursuit of intimacy is more than keeping romance alive—it’s a reflection of Christ’s covenant love for His bride, the church.

Day 1 – Seasons in Marriage

Devotional:
Have you ever looked at your marriage and thought, “This doesn’t feel the way it used to”? Maybe the butterflies are gone, the laughter is quieter, or your conversations are mostly about bills, chores, or the kids. If you’ve felt that way, you’re not alone. Every marriage goes through seasons—some full of joy and connection, and others that feel dry, distant, or routine.

The truth is, a dry season doesn’t mean your love is gone. It simply means you’re being invited to lean in and choose love in a deeper way. Just like the trees in winter look bare but are still alive, your marriage can be in a quiet season and still be full of life beneath the surface. God is not only present in the “honeymoon” days—He is faithful in the ordinary days too. And He specializes in bringing new life where things seem faded.

So, take a deep breath. Your marriage is not failing just because it feels dry right now. God is still writing your love story, and He knows how to refresh your hearts again.

Prayer:
Lord, thank You for this gift of marriage. Help me to see my marriage through Your eyes, even when it feels hard or dry. Teach me to trust You with every season—whether we are thriving or struggling. Bring fresh joy, intimacy, and connection to our home. Amen.

Challenge:
Do something simple but meaningful today: write your husband a quick note or send a text just to say, “I love you, and I’m thankful for you.” Don’t overthink it—small words can carry big weight.

Ready to rekindle love in your marriage? Start by praying for your husband and see God do a great work in your home.

For guided prayers, use the Cover Him E-Book here.