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The Gift of Rejection

USUKU 3 KWEZINGU- 5

Lapho sidumazeka, ubuhlungu bethu bokwenqatshwa bubonakala kwabanye ngendlela yentukuthelo, ukulwa, ukuklabalasa, nokulimaza abantu. Lolu hlobo lobuhlungu bokwenqatshwa yindlela evame ukubonwa njengengalungile. Kodwa, singaphinde sibheke ngohlobo olubukeka luhle kakhulu lobuhlungu bokulahlwa, futhi lokho kuyimpumelelo; ukuba nesifiso sokuvelela kanye nokuzuza njalo impumelelo eyengeziwe.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma sifihla, ubuhlungu bethu bokwenqatshwa buthatha uhlobo lokuzilimaza. Abantu bangena kuzo zonke izinhlobo zokulutha ukuze bazame ukudambisa ubuhlungu babo bokwenqatshwa, okuhlanganisa izidakamizwa noma utshwala noma ucansi noma izithombe zocansi. Abanye abantu bayazisika noma bagcine becindezeleke kakhulu noma bekhathazeke kakhulu. Lapho sifihla, abantu abasibhekile bavame ukunikina amakhanda ngenxa yokunengeka ngoba abaqondi ukuthi kungani siqhubeka sizilimaza.

Kodwa, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi siyadangala noma siyazifihla, umsuka wobuhlungu uyefana. Ukubonakalisa kwethu ukwenqatshwa kuyindlela esibhekana ngayo nokulahlwa, ukuhlaziswa, ukuphoxeka, nokungafunwa.

Namuhla, ngifuna ukuthi uthembeke ngempela kuwena futhi ubuze imibuzo elandelayo:

  1. Ngibonakala kanjani emhlabeni ngenxa yobuhlungu bami bokwaliwa?
  2. Ngenzenjani ukuze ngisuse noma ngiqede ubuhlungu?

Cabanga ngalokhu namuhla futhi uhlanganyele nami emuva lapha kusasa njengoba ngabelana ngesambulo esingokomBhalo esenze ngabona ukwenqatshwa njengesipho uNkulunkulu angasisebenzisa ukuze kulunge mina kanye nenkazimulo yakhe.

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The Gift of Rejection

Ngokusekelwe encwadini yakhe edume kakhulu, Isipho Sokwenqatshwa, lolu Hlelo LweBhayibheli Lwezinsuku Ezingu- 5 lombhali, umshumayeli, kanye Nenxusa Lomhlaba Wonke le-YouVersion uNona Jones lizokuthatha ohambweni olunamandla lokushintsha indlela obona ngayo ukunqatshwa. Esikhundleni sokuba buhlungu ukukulawla, kuba yisipho ukuvula nokufunda kuso. Oda ibhuku Lesipho Sokwenqaba ukuze uthole imininingwane ejulile nokufunda nomaphi lapho izincwadi zithengiswa khona ku-inthanethi!

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