Okuhlukile Kwengane Yami: Ukusekelwa Kwezinto Eziphezulu NezaphansiIsampula

Ukusebenzisa Amazwi Akho 

Kwesinye isikhathi ufuna nje ukumemeza, uklabalasa, nokukhala (mhlawumbe konke ngesikhathi esisodwa). Futhi ngezinye izikhathi, awukwazi ukukholwa ukuthi ubusiswe kangakanani futhi awukwazi ukubonga uNkulunkulu ngokwanele ngalokho akunike khona nalapho akulethe khona wena nomndeni wakho. 

Kuzo zombili izimo, kungase kube nzima ukuthola amagama afanele isimo. Ngilucela kanjani ngokufanelekile usizo oludingwa umndeni wethu? Ngingayisiza kanjani ingane yami ukuthi abandakanywe futhi amukelwe? Ngingasigcina kanjani isineke sami futhi ngibonise umusa kulo muntu kanye “neseluleko” sakhe engingakaze ngisicele? Noma, ngezinye izikhathi, izinto zihamba kahle kakhulu, futhi uyazibuza, Ngingakuhlanganyela kanjani engikufundile nabanye abangase basizwe ngendaba yami? Ngingambonga kanjani uNkulunkulu nomphakathi wakithi ngendlela abazibonakalisa ngayo ngami nomndeni wami? 

Nazi izindlela ezintathu ongakhuluma ngazo kunoma yisiphi isimo.

1. Cela usizo kanye nezeluleko. Imizwa, imicabango, ukuphakama, nokudumala kufanele kwabelwane nabangani abathembekile, umndeni, abeluleki, abeluleki, abelaphi, odokotela, noma abanye abantu abahlakaniphile. Akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi ukufinyelela, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi sonke sidinga iseluleko. Sonke sidinga ihlombe, futhi sonke sidinga usizo. Kufanele nje uthole abantu bakho. Joyina iqembu le-Facebook. Qala iqembu esontweni lakho elihlanganayo noma lithumelelana imiyalezo. Enza abangani. Impilo ingcono sindawonye ngoba asidalelwanga ukuhamba sodwa. 

2. Yiba ummeli wengane yakho nomndeni. Ngakho, isikole saphinda safona futhi asibonakali sinamathela ohlelweni lomuntu ngamunye lwengane yakho. Ushayele itiyetha wabuza mayelana nezinketho zokufinyeleleka zengane yakho eyisithulu futhi bakutshela ngamarampu ezihlalo zabakhubazekile. Woza futhi? Usizo lwengane yakho alubonakali kuleli viki futhi isonto alinalo uhlelo lokusekela.  

Kungaba lula futhi kubenomqondo ukulahlekelwa yikho—intukuthelo yakho, isineke, nengqondo. Kodwa leli yithuba lakho lokuthi ngokuzola nangomusa ube ummeli wengane yakho nomndeni wakho. Phefumula. Zinike isikhashana uziqoqe. Phendula. Iba ummeli. Buyekez kabusha, futhi ukhulume futhi noma nini lapho kudingeka.  

3. Khuluma impilo. Indaba yakho, indaba yengane yakho, indaba yomndeni wakho–konke kuhle futhi kubalulekile. Bangase beze ngamunye noxhaxha lwemizwa yabo, izilingo, kanye nokunqoba, futhi bangase ngamunye bakuphonsele inselelo futhi bakudonse usuku nosuku futhi umzuzwana nomzuzwana. 

Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthola ubuhle bese ubhala izimpumelelo nezinqophamlando enifinyelela kuzo ndawonye. 

Uyayazi ijenali obuyenza kulo lonke lolu Hlelo LweBhayibheli? Qhubeka. Bhala phansi zonke izindlela okhula ngazo njengomzali. Bhala phansi izinyathelo ezibalulekile enifinyelele kuzo nonke. Bhala izindlela ezahlukene abantu abakukhombisa zona wena nomndeni wakho umusa omkhulu noma omncane. Bhala imizwa yakho. Bhala okuhle. Ngolunye usuku, uzobonga kakhulu ngokuthi wenze. Kuzokusiza ukhumbule ukuphakama lapho usenkathini yokwehla. Izokukhumbuza ukuthi ihlobo liyeza ngisho noma kuneqhwa nxazonke. Futhi, kuzokwenza kube lula kakhulu kuwe ukwabelana ngezindlela oye wazibonela ngazo ukwethembeka nobuhle bukaNkulunkulu nalabo abadinga isikhuthazo.

Siyabonga ngokuvumela thina esibhale lolu hlelo lweBhayibheli empilweni yakho. Namanje asazi ukuthi sikutholephi ohambweni lwakho oluqondile njengomzali wengane ehlukile noma ekhubazekile, kodwa siyathoba ngokuthi usivumele singene empilweni yakho, ekhaya, nasenhliziyweni yakho. Ubizo lwakho alukabi lula, kodwa lungolunye oluklomelisa kakhulu. Sithandazela ukuthula kwakho, induduzo, nokuqina njengoba uqhubeka ujabulela futhi wazisa wonke umzuzu onawo endaweni enhle obungalindelekile uNkulunkulu akucele ukuba uhambe kuyo. 

Ijenali: Bheka emuva ekubhaleni kwakho kwejenali yokuqala. Ingabe uNkulunkulu wahlangana nawe lapho umdinga khona? Noma wahlangana nawe endaweni obungazi nokuthi ubudinga kakhulu ubukhona Bakhe? Noma yikuphi, Mbonge. 

Okwengeziwe ngokuphila impilo yokumesaba uNkulunkulu.