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“Ukuphatha Imali”
Bambalwa abantu abaqaphelayo ngaphambi komshado ukuthi ubuhlobo babo nemali bubalulekile empilweni yobuhlobo babo lapho beshadile. Nakuba kuzwakala kuxakile, wonke umuntu unabo ngempela ubuhlobo nemali. Awukwazi ukukubalekela; ungaqiniseka kuphela ukuthi iba yisibopho esihle hhayi umthombo wobugqila.
Ukuba ngumphathi omuhle wemali ngokuvamile kuyindaba yesimo sengqondo. Izenzo zakho ngemali zizobonisa isimo sakho sengqondo. Abanye abantu banobudlelwano bothando obuqinile nemali kunomlingani wabo okhethiwe. Bathanda imali ngaphezu kukaNkulunkulu. Nokho, lapho ufunda ukubeka uNkulunkulu nomndeni wakho kuqala kunemali, uqala ukusebenzisa kahle imali.
Uma sikhuluma ngoNkulunkulu, bewazi yini ukuthi usinika iziyalezo eziningi ngemali? Ebhayibhelini, kunamavesi angaba ngu-500 omthandazo, amavesi angu-500 okholo, namavesi angaphezu kuka-2,350 ngemali! Ukuphathwa kwezimali zomuntu kuyindaba engokomoya. Emabandleni, ukuphathwa kwemali kuvame ukubizwa ngokuthi ubuphathi. Kithina esilandela uJesu, sibizelwe ukuba ngabaphathi abathembekile (empeleni, abaphathi) bezinto zethu. Abeluleki abaningi bezezimali bavuka nsuku zonke bejabule ukusiza abanye babe abaphathi abahle. U-Ron Blue ungumeluleki oyedwa ogqugquzelwe ukusiza imishado ukuthola impumelelo yezezimali nenjabulo. Izimiso zakhe ezimbalwa ezibalulekile zobuphathi ukuthi uNkulunkulu umnikazi wazo zonke futhi ukwanelisa ukubambezeleka kuyisihluthulelo sokuvuthwa ngokwezimali.
Njengezithandani kuzodingeka ninqume ukuthi nizisingatha kanjani izimali zenu. Umbuzo omkhulu uthi: Ingabe uzokhetha ukusebenzisa imali nesikweletu, noma ukwanelisa ukubambezeleka kanye nesabelomali esinomthwalo wemfanelo? Uma ubungakaxoxi ngalokhu, udinga ukucabangisisa ngalo mbuzo, bese uhlela izinyathelo zakho ukuze uqinisekise impumelelo yakho yesikhathi eside.
* Uyiphathe kanjani imali njengomuntu oyedwa? Uhlela ukuyiphatha kanjani njengomuntu oshadile? Usukhulume kabanzi ngalesi sihloko esibaluleke kangaka? Ingabe usuwakhile isabelomali sezimali ozokwabelwana ngazo maduze?
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Kuthathwe encwadini yabo ethi "Getting Ready for Marriage," joyina ochwepheshe bezobudlelwano uJim Burns noDoug Fields njengoba bekusiza ukuthi uqale manje ukuhlelela ubudlelwane ubuhlala njalo. Ezezimali, abasekhweni, ukuxhumana, ukuxolelana, okulindelekile ocansini, asikho isihloko esinqunyelwe njengoba wena nomngani wakho womshado nilungiselela ukusuka ekuthembiseni ningene esivumelwaneni sempilo yonke komunye nomunye.
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